a calm in the storm : Issue No. 4 "wandering in another time"

A couple weeks ago we had the privilege of attending our home church at Newport Mesa Church in Costa Mesa. The timing was nothing less than perfect when we found the topic of the sermon was "Wandering in Another Time." In other words, why worry, because when you do, you're working on borrowed time. The lead pastor, Scott Rachels, is a blessed man who has the gift of words and sharing what's been put on his heart. As we were listening to the age old conversation of "do not worry," it became more real when we heard the comparison of wandering in another time. When you become stressed about things that haven't happened, you're assuming that is what is in the future. You're living in the future thinking about situations you may never experience. When you worry, you're assuming that life will take one course, when all the while there is something in front of you looking to lead you in a completely different direction. You end up walking right past an incredible opportunity, gift or relationship that is staring right at you because you're too busy occupying your mind with something that may never come to pass. A crisis never happens in the future, it always happens in the present. So why worry about something that hasn't happened yet? This is easier said than done, spoken from a true worrier. As a perfectionist and someone who likes to know what's ahead, I tend to cross the fine line between being prepared and worrying about what's ahead. But I've learned, that it's not about what might happen, it's about what's happening. I'm all for taking the time to prepare to your best ability, but at some point you've done all you can and now it's time to let things take their course and respond as well as you can. But don't expend your energy in worrying about what can be...take your time and enjoy what's happening in front of you. If you're wedding planning, remember not to worry about what might go wrong, enjoy what's happening. If you're looking for a job, remember not to worry about whether a job will come or not, think about what you can do today to make a difference in your situation. If you're struggling financially, don't think about if you can make your mortgage or rent next month, be thankful that you were able to make it this month. If you couldn't make it this month, will your situation be cured by worrying about what might happen, or is your energy better spent in seeking a solution. Take time and indulge in the blessings you have. Having grown up in Orange County, every time we drive down the 55 South, we keep an eye out for the Orco sign displaying short quotes that are generally very applicable and profound. This month's was "Character is not created during crisis, it is only exhibited." So stop using your energy to worry about what might happen. If you're like me, it's a daily choice to choose growing your character in experiencing the now so that you'll be prepared for what becomes your present.